another sleepless night...

His sis came over for a chat last night... after she left, he spent the whole night surfing the net till this morning, I don't know what he's thinking, but he kept reminding me he's ok, I know he isn't. I'm pretty bothered! I wanted to tell them, his perspective in life is different from yours, that doesn't mean he's wrong, he's just not you! Yeah well, the only thing he did wrong was shouting at his dad and banging the phone on the coffee table in front of them. He's a simple guy, can you guys just let him be, do not force him to think the way you think and thought he's wrong because he's not like you! Why should he has the same thinking like you? I wanted to tell them all these, but I'm in no position to do so. I do not want to complicate the situation anymore. If they think we did not handle the wedding muture enough or up to their standard, they should have told us earlier, not blaming this and that after the wedding. How can they do this to him?

I sent an apology sms to his dad, and he replied "What happen has happened. I hope in future both of you pay more attention to whats happening around you and to be more caring and thoughtful in order not to hurt other peoples feelings and respect elders... no hard feelings afterall we are a family. Take care." After reading this, I feel the urge to ask them, what did we do by not being caring and thoughtful enough? Whatever decision we made, we always ask their opinion first, I did not even ask my parents, and how did they feel that we do not respect them? I feel so sad for Alan, noone in his family tried to understand or care about his feelings, even if he's so wrong, can someone at least talk to him and really try to understand him? Noone cares, the only thing they care is he shouted at his dad and he's wrong, nothing else is important. I did not show him the sms, cos I know he'll feel even worst after seeing it. I don't wanna take this so seriously but after seeing Alan being so upset, I couldn't take it anymore!

Afterall life isn't treatng him too badly, at least he has me!

the downturn...

I couldn't believe what had happened to me is happening to me right now. I thought the time and efforts we spent, we'll at least get some credit from my in-laws... sigh. Alan is still pretty upset about all these, I know I'm in no place to do anything except to be there for him whenever he needs me. I can foresee a tough and rockie road ahead of us, especially Chinese New Year is getting closer... shit... but I will stay strong knowing that Alan is always here! Thank god its him!

New Try Out

Me and Alan went to try out this new place for seafood at Batu Caves called Jin Chwan. Quite nice and reasonable prices.



All choices of fresh seafoods....

'Lai Liu' Prawns

Oyster... yum yum

Fresh tiger prwans

Eel...

a new recipe

I created a new soup last night, inspired by my sis. It turns out to be quite nice and tasty. I boiled pork ribs with mushroom, red dates, gei zi, dried scallop and white pepper. Boil the pork ribs, mushroom and white pepper for an hour first, then only you put in the dried scallop (so it'll not all get melted by then) and boil for another 40 - 45 mins, lastly 30 mins before you turn off the fire, put in the gei zi, so that the soup will not turn soury (was taught by a friend, it works). Its quite nice, please try it and let me know your feedback!

Gals night out

Tonight we are having a gals night out, going to this new club at sunway called M.O.S. It's a brand new club opened early July, so we decided to check it out and have some fun... this will be a great start for the weekend after a whole week of hard work.

Another year wiser...

Happy 36th Birthday to Tzy Huey my sister! This year's birthday is a special one, as she has Wei, Ernie and Faith celebrating with her. I know she's happy 'bout it... and I'm happy for her too... I hope that her life ahead is a blissful one. God bless her!

Chyan & Choon Er's Wedding

I attended Chyan and Choon Er's wedding last week. Met some really old friends from high school that had lost contact since then, it was fun catching up! I was really surprised that most of them got married with kids, some is getting marry this year. This is so erm, what's that word, 'ridiculous'!!! hahahaha... and then me and mee yeow started this conversation like, people in malaysia has nothing better to do, and life is so bored that everyone is getting married so young and already had a kid or two. Sorry if I accused anyone... Though I realised that age is really catching up... face the fact!!! But of course, I'm still having a lot of fun before my wedding end of the year.... hahahaha... oh, I'm gonna really miss my single life!!! My girls night out.... my drinking sessions.... sigh sigh sigh!!!

Here's some snap shots of the wedding that I took from my mobile camera (not very clear), I still haven't got a copy of the photos taken by the real camera from my classmates yet... don't know if I'll ever get it!